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Wondering if you'll ever find a guy who really wants a COMMITMENT.
I hear the same thing from so many of you, and it's the same thing that I used to say myself not so very long ago.
I hear you saying that you want a guy to make a commitment to you. You want a guy to want to have a committed relationship with you. You're wondering if you'll ever find a guy who really wants a commitment.
Some people get engaged but then never set a date or make any wedding plans – before you know it you've been engaged for three years and you're not any closer to saying "I do". I think at this stage that his actions are what's important – the more he's actively participating in the planning of the wedding the more committed he is to the relationship.
Here's what I believe: Commitment is what you and your significant other have mutually decided it is.
And more importantly, it's supporting and respecting that vision for each other. It may involve compromising and being willing to consider a viewpoint different from your own. It also involves each of you committing to caring for each other the same way than you care for yourself, as if the two of you were one.
Commitment also requires that each partner choose it themselves. I don't believe anyone can force you to commit to something. You can certainly try, but ultimately a true commitment that comes from the heart has to come from each person of their own free will. Commitment is about feelings, thoughts, and, maybe most importantly of all, actions.
Ultimately actions speak louder than words (or thoughts or feelings). It might be that he's thinking of you quite a bit, and has tremendous feelings for you, but these don't translate into actions – however this is an extremely unlikely scenario.
The reality is that if he's thinking of you he's going to call you, text you, send you flowers, take you to your favorite restaurant, or something. That's the point.
It takes two to make the world go 'round
Both partners have to be in it to win it. And I would also say that both need to have the same level of expectations and definitions of what a commitment means.
The problem is that so many of us have such a vague idea of what commitment really means that it's no wonder we can't seem to find it or get it from our guy. We think of it as an unspoken "bond" of some sort – whether it be spiritual, emotional, physical, or some combination of all three.
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